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Church Membership? What does it mean to mean to be a church member? Does that mean that for some church comes with special perks, privileges, or VIP seating? Church member is often misunderstood by both those who are for it, as well as by those who are not in favor of it. To state is simply, church membership is commitment of a local body to covenant with God and one another to love God, love one another, love their neighbor as themselves. Therefore, every believer must see his or her church membership as an honor, privilege, and joy.

Thom Rainer recently wrote a little book entitled, “I Am a Church Member,” which expresses many similar thoughts and ideas we share when it comes to church membership. In his introduction, he shares a story entitled, “A Tale of Two Church Members,” and focuses on two very different perspectives on church membership. He wrote: I am suggesting that congregations across America are weak because many of us church members have lost the biblical understanding of what it means to be a part of the body of Christ. We join our churches expecting others to serve us, to feed us, and to care for us. We don’t like the hypocrites in the church, but we fail to see our own hypocrisies. God did not give us local churches to become country clubs where membership means we have privileges and perks. He placed us in churches to serve, to care for others, to pray for leaders, to learn, to teach, to give, and, in some cases, to die for the sake of the gospel. The book is divided into six chapters with each title declaring something about the type of church member we should be.

Chapter 1: “I Will Be a Functioning Church Member”

This chapter focuses on the responsibility of church members to be active in using their spiritual gifts to build up the body of Christ. Rainer wrote: With a country club membership you pay others to do the work for you. With church membership, everyone has a role or function. That is why some are hands, feet, ears, or eyes. We are all different, but we are necessary parts of the whole. Every member is vital to the body of Christ and when all members are not using their gifts in the body the church suffers! Rainer offered a very helpful question that church members can ask themselves, “How can I best serve my church?”

Chapter 2: “I Will Be a Unifying Church Member”

Rainer opens up with a powerful statement that I believe many people forget: “The world will know if we are Christians or not by the way we who are believers act toward one another.” Many of us have been involved in churches where there was little to no unity but that should not be the case. Rainer indicated that one of the most damaging things to church unity is gossip within the church. Church members have a responsibility to fight for (no pun intended) church unity at all times.

Chapter 3: “I Will Not Let My Church Be about My Preferences and Desires”

We live in a culture that is predominately “me” focused. This is true both in and out of the church. We are accustomed to being served and attended to. The problem according to Rainer is that church members should relinquish their wants and preferences as soon as they join their local church. He wrote: But the strange thing about church membership is that you actually give up your preferences when you join. Don’t get me wrong; there may be much about your church that you like a lot. But you are there to meet the needs of others. You are there to serve others. You are there to give. You are there to sacrifice. Serving others is what Jesus did and what he calls us to do within the church.

Chapter 4: “I Will Pray for My Church Leaders”

Rainer’s challenge to church members in this chapter is encouraging to pastors and church leaders. He emphasized the need for church members to pray for their leaders, specifically pastors. His reasoning is very clear: We should not be surprised, then, when we hear about a pastor’s moral failure. We are grieved and heartbroken, but not surprised. The devil is setting traps for pastors – anything he can do to bring harm to the pastor’s reputation. He will stop at nothing – greed, adultery, anger, addiction – to catch the pastor in his trap. He emphasizes that God works through the prayers of believers – pastors need all the prayers they can get. My hope is that more church members will diligently pray for their pastors and leaders!

Chapter 5: “I Will Lead My Family to Be Healthy Church Members”

This chapter focuses on three necessities for families: to pray for the church, worship together in the church, and develop a love for the church. Rainer offered this helpful thought: As I grow more deeply in love with my church, I will do all I can in God’s power to bring my family with me. We will pray for our church leaders together. We will worship together. And we will serve together. We desperately need more families who love the church and who worship, serve, and pray for the church!

Chapter 6: “I Will Treasure Church Membership as a Gift”

The book ends with a chapter that focuses on the need to see church membership as a precious gift. Rainer wrote: Church membership is a gift. A gift must be treasured. It should not be taken for granted or considered lightly. Because it is a gift, we must always be thankful for it. And when we are thankful for something, we have less time and energy to be negative. We need more church members who are grateful for the gift of the local church and membership within the body!

How do you view your church membership? Are you connected? Are you committed? Are you a Church Member?


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